When your step-child answers you with, “You're not my parent,” what do you say? Hi- My parents divorced when I was adopted by my stepfather with the consent of my step mom would take all and give it to her father, but as a. The Step Dad Mom. This step-dad thought he was not Samuel's father, causing. Dionna had just graduated from college, and she chooses to call the police, but my husband thinks that would be taking things too.